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What All Young Girls Should Know.
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If you are a young,
inexperienced girl, on the verge of becoming a ‘first-time
dater’, there are a few things you should know about the dating
pattern. Most men have this pattern when they go
‘girl-scouting’, and this is how they do it:
- SIGHT-SEEING: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In
this case, the beholder is a man with a mission. We all know
that a woman who doesn’t look good, holds no attraction for
a man. Pay attention, girls: if you walk around half naked,
most men would think you are fair game. A playboy would then
take the opportunity to play you like a fiddle and drop you
like a hot cake after he had his way with you. Properly,
smartly dressed girls are bound to attract guys who treat
women like ladies.
- FISHING: The next step is to find out whether the girl
is available or interested. Careful, there are a lot of
smoothies who can make you believe that you are the only
girl they have eyes for, which sometimes is not the case.
Don’t talk too much. Make sure you ask the questions and let
him do the answering. Try not to show what you feel or think
at that moment.
- THE TOUCH TEST: He would probably take your hand, play
with your fingers or touch your hair. If you allow him to do
that, he will think you’re easy. Show him that you are in
control of yourself and the situation, and gently but firmly
push his hand away.
- THE INVITATION: He will then invite you to a quiet place
where you can talk and get to know each other better. Don’t
fall for that. Try to avoid dark corners. You don’t know the
guy.
- TOUCHY-FEELY: Now he will try to ‘caress’ you into
submission. The hands of an experienced man can be powerful
weapons. If you don’t like the ‘touchy-feely’ part, simply
tell him he has no business trying to ‘feel’ his way to your
heart. Beware of the danger zone. That’s when you like it
too much and get carried away.
- THE LIP-AND-TONGUE TALK: Kissing. Reaching for the moon
and the stars. Nice, but girls, that’s how ‘making babies’
start.
Enjoy the days of your youth.
Butterfly.
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